For the past three summers now, I have had the opportunity to work at an amazing camp called Youth Leadership Forum for high school juniors and seniors with disabilities. I had no idea what to expect the first summer. I definitely expected sleep deprivation and lots of teambuilding activities (accurate, by the way). I probably expected to hand out all kinds of advice regarding my vast amount of leadership skills (wrong). I didn't expect a week long of highly processed and/or fried foods or the kink in my workout routine. Mostly, I didn't expect to be inspired. After all, I'm the one with all of my ducks in a row, right?
Meet M. (Well, apparently my computer doesn't want you to meet her today, as it is not letting me upload any pictures.) M has Cerebral Palsy. She gets around quite well using a walker, but nonetheless, she wakes up every morning with a body that does not obey her mind. M is extremely intelligent, funny, kind, and motivated, but many people automatically write her off as being none of those things because she has a visible disability. Although M is well-spoken, people in public arenas often address whoever is with M with their questions and comments instead of addressing M herself because they assume that she is unable to talk. It would be easy for M to complain about the way people treat her, to use her disability as an excuse, or to become angry and bitter that she wakes up with a disability every morning that 98% of the world will never understand. Instead, she chooses gratitude. She chooses to overlook people's stereotypes. She chooses to persevere despite all odds.
M wasn't the only inspiring camper this week. B is blind but is going to OSU for engineering. A has a Traumatic Brain Injury but is one of the funniest people I have ever met. J has autism and can sing like nobody's business. C has epilepsy but works, volunteers, and takes college classes. And the list goes on. Gosh, even one of the counselors has cancer. When I looked around the room at camp, I didn't see disabilities or sickness. I saw hope.
Being at camp this week reminded me of several things.
1. I complain an awful lot (about stupid things).
2. I make lots of lame excuses.
3. I am blessed beyond measure.
Tomorrow, I challenge you to wake up and count your blessings. I can guarantee you that someone else is, and chances are good that it's someone who has far less to be thankful for than you do.
These are great reminders MR. It's a goal that I also have plus remembering to tell people who are important to you how much you love them..so just a friendly reminder "love you friend"!
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